How can I improve my relationship with my siblings?
First and foremost, you gotta stop wanting for your siblings to be different than they are, and start treating them with loving acceptance. Then, you really gotta learn how to respect your differences. If you guys aren’t on the same page with things, it doesn’t mean you’re not on the same team, it doesn’t mean you don’t love each other. It’s just, how do you come up with a space that allows both of you to be who you are and to think the way that you do, and let that be okay. And then, lastly, really focus on giving them unconditional love without expecting anything in return. The more that we’re always like “you didn’t do that, and you didn’t do this,” you’re not gonna be able to be close if you’re always picking at them. You need to be able to really love and accept who they are even if it’s not who you want them to be.
So in sum, accept their differences, respect their differences and love unconditionally, without asking for anything in return.